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notoriouszag:

*sigh*
Being on “social networking” sites and within the blogging community really opens my eyes to some of the most pretentious shit I have ever seen in my life. This “declaration.” Really? Have you people really suffered this much at the hands of others just because you are fat? “I am NOT a BBW?” Why not? Are you not big? Do you not consider yourself beautiful? Certainly you catergorize yourself as a woman. A big beautiful woman may not be all you are, but surely there are worse things to be called. Yes, I have been cat called. “Ay big girl!” or “I want big sexy in the heels right there.” OK, but guess what? Most women are objectified; your major object just happens to be your fat. Do not respond to people who see you for only your size. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS WAY ABOUT MY SIZE OR MY WEIGHT. My sister is a size 10, and sometimes, she asks, “Don’t you want to be thin?” My answer is always no. I would much rather be happy, doing the things I want, eating what I want. I’m not a spinach and boiled egg salad eating type. I doubt that I will ever be, and certainly not for the sake of being skinny. And as far as being “jerk off material?” uhh, why wouldn’t you want to be the object of a dude’s desire? Men jerk off, that’s what they do. If he finds you attractive enough to fap over, what is the problem? I don’t know many guys who lust after fat alone; if that was the case, they could get off on pictures of actual yellow gobs of fat. Just, ugh. I don’t understand who seems to be the average fat chick. Most of my adult life, I have teetered between sizes 22-24, and in high school, I went between 16/18-20. Always been fat. I have never dealt with people whose sole focus is my weight. Who are you sad fat people surrounding yourselves with? It’s almost painful to see. Stop fucking complaining and trying to be deep. Get happy and move on.
kylathegreat:

I am NOT a BBW !
I am a person. I am a fat activist. I use my body as a tool to help others. I use my clothing as a way to express my creativity. I do not care if you are sexually attracted to me. What I do to engage and resist is not meant to be your jerk off material.I am not a fetish. I am not here for you to objectify and dehumanize. I am not a charity case. I am not grateful for your attention. I am not putting up with this.I am more than my (fat) body. Treat me that way.
(by kylathegreat)

It’s one thing to not agree with my sentiment, but to pair diarrhea-esque ignorance with insults flowing so freely from your fingertips ?

The highlights:“Have you people really suffered this much at the hands of others just because you are fat?”Yes.
““I am NOT a BBW?” Why not? Are you not big? Do you not consider yourself beautiful? Certainly you catergorize yourself as a woman.”No, I’m not big. Yes, I am beautiful, which is subjective and irrelevant. Also, assuming I ‘categorize’ myself as a woman also isn’t cool, since the evidence here would suggest you’ve not read a single thing on my blog, which means you have no idea what I ‘categorize’ myself as.
“And as far as being “jerk off material?” uhh, why wouldn’t you want to be the object of a dude’s desire? Men jerk off, that’s what they do. If he finds you attractive enough to fap over, what is the problem?”Some of us dig respect and consent. Some of us truly believe that we are more than objects meant for others sexual gratification. Some of us would like to post pictures of us with our friends, without showing up on fetish blogs where people objectify us because of our size. Clearly, this is a train you’ve not hopped on.
“I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS WAY ABOUT MY SIZE OR MY WEIGHT.”Good for you.
“I don’t know many guys who lust after fat alone; if that was the case, they could get off on pictures of actual yellow gobs of fat. “Stupidest shit I’ve heard in a long time. Congrats !
“Who are you sad fat people surrounding yourselves with? It’s almost painful to see. Stop fucking complaining and trying to be deep. Get happy and move on.”I surround myself with amazing, loving, beautiful, caring people. However, between all of my blogs, I have ~10,000 followers, and I cannot control who surrounds me, or those I surround myself with. You’re a sad case if you think it’s painful to see a person who speaks out against something they feel is inappropriate. Also, I can assure that my happiness level is out of this fukken world.

Kyla for the fucking WIN

notoriouszag:

*sigh*

Being on “social networking” sites and within the blogging community really opens my eyes to some of the most pretentious shit I have ever seen in my life. This “declaration.” Really? Have you people really suffered this much at the hands of others just because you are fat? “I am NOT a BBW?” Why not? Are you not big? Do you not consider yourself beautiful? Certainly you catergorize yourself as a woman. A big beautiful woman may not be all you are, but surely there are worse things to be called. Yes, I have been cat called. “Ay big girl!” or “I want big sexy in the heels right there.” OK, but guess what? Most women are objectified; your major object just happens to be your fat. Do not respond to people who see you for only your size. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS WAY ABOUT MY SIZE OR MY WEIGHT. My sister is a size 10, and sometimes, she asks, “Don’t you want to be thin?” My answer is always no. I would much rather be happy, doing the things I want, eating what I want. I’m not a spinach and boiled egg salad eating type. I doubt that I will ever be, and certainly not for the sake of being skinny. And as far as being “jerk off material?” uhh, why wouldn’t you want to be the object of a dude’s desire? Men jerk off, that’s what they do. If he finds you attractive enough to fap over, what is the problem? I don’t know many guys who lust after fat alone; if that was the case, they could get off on pictures of actual yellow gobs of fat. Just, ugh. I don’t understand who seems to be the average fat chick. Most of my adult life, I have teetered between sizes 22-24, and in high school, I went between 16/18-20. Always been fat. I have never dealt with people whose sole focus is my weight. Who are you sad fat people surrounding yourselves with? It’s almost painful to see. Stop fucking complaining and trying to be deep. Get happy and move on.

kylathegreat:

I am NOT a BBW !

I am a person. I am a fat activist. I use my body as a tool to help others. I use my clothing as a way to express my creativity. I do not care if you are sexually attracted to me. What I do to engage and resist is not meant to be your jerk off material.

I am not a fetish. I am not here for you to objectify and dehumanize. I am not a charity case. I am not grateful for your attention. I am not putting up with this.

I am more than my (fat) body. Treat me that way.

(by kylathegreat)

It’s one thing to not agree with my sentiment, but to pair diarrhea-esque ignorance with insults flowing so freely from your fingertips ?

The highlights:
“Have you people really suffered this much at the hands of others just because you are fat?”
Yes.

““I am NOT a BBW?” Why not? Are you not big? Do you not consider yourself beautiful? Certainly you catergorize yourself as a woman.”
No, I’m not big. Yes, I am beautiful, which is subjective and irrelevant. Also, assuming I ‘categorize’ myself as a woman also isn’t cool, since the evidence here would suggest you’ve not read a single thing on my blog, which means you have no idea what I ‘categorize’ myself as.

“And as far as being “jerk off material?” uhh, why wouldn’t you want to be the object of a dude’s desire? Men jerk off, that’s what they do. If he finds you attractive enough to fap over, what is the problem?”
Some of us dig respect and consent. Some of us truly believe that we are more than objects meant for others sexual gratification. Some of us would like to post pictures of us with our friends, without showing up on fetish blogs where people objectify us because of our size. Clearly, this is a train you’ve not hopped on.

“I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS WAY ABOUT MY SIZE OR MY WEIGHT.”
Good for you.

“I don’t know many guys who lust after fat alone; if that was the case, they could get off on pictures of actual yellow gobs of fat. “
Stupidest shit I’ve heard in a long time. Congrats !

“Who are you sad fat people surrounding yourselves with? It’s almost painful to see. Stop fucking complaining and trying to be deep. Get happy and move on.”
I surround myself with amazing, loving, beautiful, caring people. However, between all of my blogs, I have ~10,000 followers, and I cannot control who surrounds me, or those I surround myself with.
You’re a sad case if you think it’s painful to see a person who speaks out against something they feel is inappropriate.
Also, I can assure that my happiness level is out of this fukken world.